
When you and your partner separate, you will have to deal with several legal issues. For example, you must decide about financial support, how to care for your children and how to divide the family property. You can go to court to make these decisions. You can also make informal arrangements or use alternative dispute resolution (ADR).
What is arbitration?
Arbitration is one kind of alternative dispute resolution (ADR). ADR is a way for people to try to work out legal issues without going to court. You cannot be forced into ADR for a family law case. You and your former partner must choose it freely.
In arbitration, you and your former partner hire a third person to resolve your conflict. This person is called an arbitrator. An arbitrator cannot grant a divorce or an annulment but can decide on custody, support, access and how to divide property. They can only decide on the issues you ask them to resolve. The arbitrator must use only Canadian or Ontario family law.
Arbitration is like a court case, but it is less formal. Most people have a lawyer. At the hearing, both you and your former partner can give evidence and say what you think is fair. After each of you has talked, the arbitrator will make a decision. Their decision is called an arbitral award.
If you do not know your rights under Canadian laws, talk to a lawyer before agreeing to arbitration. Once arbitration starts, you cannot decide to walk away. You must obey the arbitrator’s decision even if you do not agree with it. As long as the arbitral award follows Canadian laws, it is legally binding.
Arbitration can be expensive because you should have a lawyer. You may also have to pay the arbitrator. Even if you do not have a lawyer with you at the hearing, you must prove that you got legal advice before agreeing to arbitrate. The cost will depend on how much the arbitrator and lawyer charge. Legal Aid will not pay for family law arbitration.
How is arbitration different from mediation?
People often think arbitration is the same as mediation. It is not. Mediation is another form of ADR. In mediation, a trained mediator helps people come to an agreement. If you are in mediation, you have choices. You can end the talks at any time or decide not to accept what your spouse is offering or the mediator is suggesting. In arbitration, you have no choice. You must accept the arbitrator’s decision, as long as it follows the law. You can appeal a family arbitration award to the court in some circumstances.
How is arbitration different from a private agreement?
Sometimes, women are pressured into asking someone they respect, like a doctor or religious leader, to make a decision about a family law dispute. If the person is not an arbitrator, their decision is not legally binding and cannot be enforced.
If you are worried that the person making decisions about your case is not a real arbitrator, ask to see proof that they are qualified to do this work. In Ontario, arbitrators who are not lawyers must have some training in family law. Also, all arbitrators must have training in how to recognize the signs of domestic violence.
How are arbitral awards enforced?
After arbitration, you can bring an application in the family court to enforce the award. Once the application is filed, the court can decide to enforce the arbitration award as if it were a court order if it meets certain conditions.
Advantages and disadvantages
Some people say that arbitration is good because:
However, many people say that arbitration is not a good way to resolve family law disputes. The arbitrator has a lot of power and can make decisions that are unfair. Also, arbitration may not work well for women because many women cannot afford a lawyer. If you do not have a lawyer, you may not know all of your rights and you may not know how to convince the arbitrator of your case.
What the law says about family law arbitration
Here are the most important things that the Arbitration Act says about your rights:
FAMILY LAW FOR WOMEN IN ONTARIO, CANADA
This page is meant to give you a basic understanding of legal issues. It is not a substitute for individual legal advice and assistance. If you are dealing with family law issues, get legal advice as soon as possible to protect your rights. Unfortunately, FLEW is not able to provide individual legal assistance.
For more information about how to find and pay for a family law lawyer, see our page on “Finding Help with your Family Law Problem”.
Last updated: March 2010
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When you and your partner separate, you will have to deal with several legal issues. For example, you must decide about financial support, how to care for your children and how to divide the family property. You can go to court to make these decisions. You can also make informal arrangements or use alternative dispute resolution (ADR).
What is arbitration?
Arbitration is one kind of alternative dispute resolution (ADR). ADR is a way for people to try to work out legal issues without going to court. You cannot be forced into ADR for a family law case. You and your former partner must choose it freely.
In arbitration, you and your former partner hire a third person to resolve your conflict. This person is called an arbitrator. An arbitrator cannot grant a divorce or an annulment but can decide on custody, support, access and how to divide property. They can only decide on the issues you ask them to resolve. The arbitrator must use only Canadian or Ontario family law.
Arbitration is like a court case, but it is less formal. Most people have a lawyer. At the hearing, both you and your former partner can give evidence and say what you think is fair. After each of you has talked, the arbitrator will make a decision. Their decision is called an arbitral award.
If you do not know your rights under Canadian laws, talk to a lawyer before agreeing to arbitration. Once arbitration starts, you cannot decide to walk away. You must obey the arbitrator’s decision even if you do not agree with it. As long as the arbitral award follows Canadian laws, it is legally binding.
Arbitration can be expensive because you should have a lawyer. You may also have to pay the arbitrator. Even if you do not have a lawyer with you at the hearing, you must prove that you got legal advice before agreeing to arbitrate. The cost will depend on how much the arbitrator and lawyer charge. Legal Aid will not pay for family law arbitration.
How is arbitration different from mediation?
People often think arbitration is the same as mediation. It is not. Mediation is another form of ADR. In mediation, a trained mediator helps people come to an agreement. If you are in mediation, you have choices. You can end the talks at any time or decide not to accept what your spouse is offering or the mediator is suggesting. In arbitration, you have no choice. You must accept the arbitrator’s decision, as long as it follows the law. You can appeal a family arbitration award to the court in some circumstances.
How is arbitration different from a private agreement?
Sometimes, women are pressured into asking someone they respect, like a doctor or religious leader, to make a decision about a family law dispute. If the person is not an arbitrator, their decision is not legally binding and cannot be enforced.
If you are worried that the person making decisions about your case is not a real arbitrator, ask to see proof that they are qualified to do this work. In Ontario, arbitrators who are not lawyers must have some training in family law. Also, all arbitrators must have training in how to recognize the signs of domestic violence.
How are arbitral awards enforced?
After arbitration, you can bring an application in the family court to enforce the award. Once the application is filed, the court can decide to enforce the arbitration award as if it were a court order if it meets certain conditions.
Advantages and disadvantages
Some people say that arbitration is good because:
However, many people say that arbitration is not a good way to resolve family law disputes. The arbitrator has a lot of power and can make decisions that are unfair. Also, arbitration may not work well for women because many women cannot afford a lawyer. If you do not have a lawyer, you may not know all of your rights and you may not know how to convince the arbitrator of your case.
What the law says about family law arbitration
Here are the most important things that the Arbitration Act says about your rights:
FAMILY LAW FOR WOMEN IN ONTARIO, CANADA
This page is meant to give you a basic understanding of legal issues. It is not a substitute for individual legal advice and assistance. If you are dealing with family law issues, get legal advice as soon as possible to protect your rights. Unfortunately, FLEW is not able to provide individual legal assistance.
For more information about how to find and pay for a family law lawyer, see our page on “Finding Help with your Family Law Problem”.
Last updated: March 2010